Introduction
Since the fall of the iron curtain, men from all over the world have been lining up to come to Ukraine in search of a beautiful bride. For many reasons, most failed. Their experiences and the lessons learnt will help you, hopefully, to increase your chances of achieving the dream. We will also delve into the current situation of available women looking to meet a foreign man with the chance that they also will be able to live the dream. So, dream on!
The Local Competition
You know it, we know it, they know it too – Ukraine has the most beautiful women in the world! This is fact, not fallacy, and even though they are beautiful (and very proud of their world standing), there is far more to the Ukrainian woman than looks alone.
So, what of the Ukrainian man, how exactly does he feel about this situation? Perhaps you’ve heard the other fallacy perpetuated by less than reputable dating agencies, that espouse the typical male here as being a lazy, slovenly, alcoholic who is either a wimp or a tyrant? In the past, there was some truth to this but it referred to a small minority, a minority even less in number now.
If you believe that as a foreigner, every beautiful woman will be at your beck and call just because she compares you against the local competition, then you are in for a sad, and bad, experience. They, local men, hold an extremely distinct advantage over you, and that is the pure and simple fact that he is a local. There is no cultural and language difficulties and many of them are well able to provide for their families these days, plus, they are not interested in travelling to another country, another culture, to seek their bride. If you haven’t raised your eyebrows in surprise at those facts, you should, because the local competition has you beat hands down!
You want to level the playing field then, turn your “disadvantage” into advantage? It’s easy, and it’s not, that conundrum created by the west itself.
Seek Professional Help
It sounds like a medical emergency right? Well, it kind of is, after all, we are talking about matters of the heart. So, how do we get the advantages in our court? Here’s the answer to the conundrum, so listen up now. Find those girls who are genuinely seeking a relationship with a foreign gentleman. That’s the hard part. Not as difficult is finding a reputable agency who has done all the hard work for you, sorted the wheat from the chaff, found those sincere, genuine Ukraine beauties and thrown them all onto an easy to find website so that you can pick and choose at your leisure. Gentlemen, (for those in doubt, I am referring to you, yes you!) that statement was made tongue in cheek because none of those steps are particularly easy. If it was that easy, there’d literally be no women left in Ukraine.
There ARE highly reputable dating agencies but sometimes they can almost be as hard to find as those actual women patiently waiting for you to come along and pluck them from relative obscurity. Some quick hints here, the women on the site should vary in age and not all their photos be the glamour type professional pics. There should be easily verifiable reviews from real people who were real clients. Don’t just take the word of the website, follow it up for yourself. If you can’t find the guy, or he won’t talk to you when you do, chances are it was a scam wouldn’t you say! Finally, if the site is purely the pay-per-letter type of deal (or video too for that matter), you can almost guarantee that it’s nothing more than scam. Yes, of course, a tiny percentage of those ladies will be genuine, but we’re talking about short cuts here, where somebody has already done all the work for you. Wouldn’t you rather those percentages be in your favor?
Finally
You should be under no illusions, if you are serious about coming to Ukraine to find the woman of your dreams. Local women do not necessarily play hard to get, nor will they run to anybody, let alone a foreigner, at the snap of a finger. Being from abroad gives a man some bonus points but he should show the best of one’s self: be noble, active, polite, funny, good-hearted.
Your biggest advantage is to do your homework first and utilize an honest, well-known dating agency. From then on, it’s all up to you!